They therefore have a high standard to work toward. I just happened upon your blog I'm a doctor's wife as well - rural family medicine and I just wanted to agree with you that "have no expectations" is awesome advice. It sounds like if we were to have a happy ending, it wouldn't be quite so happy because of how we raise our kids or how the rest of the family would treat me forever We'll discuss it again in more depth now that I have a few specific concerns about what our future together might look like.
If your heart longs for children, a family and love- why should you stop yourself holding out for some mystical Mormon man to swoop you off your feet. In my home ward, the non-member son of one of the members of the Bishopbric was able to stand up with the Priesthood and hold his baby girl while they gave her baby blessing. He will have to wait outside if his children marry in the temple. Cookies make wikiHow better. Their job is HARD. Nothing less will do. It all depends on the girl. Every new set in our ward looks at him as fresh meat. You have been blessed with the equipment to make such decisions.
I only know him as the most loving, caring, and sincere man I have ever met. Sometimes I think I'II get crazy or dipressed. None felt right, ever. Why am I still with him. Make sure she is Even after that, the Church discourages them from entering serious relationships before they are considering marriage. I agree with what you and so many of the other replies have said: Listen with an open heart and curiosity. He is in a way to become a Ex mormon. T-1yr for me T-2yrs for him. The average debt of a med school graduate is aboutUSDwhich normally takes up to 30 years to pay off and consequentially amounts to aroundUSD of total debt with accrued interest added in.
That desire that they be someone other than who they were when they married you is toxic to a relationship. We strive to improve each other. Did you ask him to drop you off and he refused, or were you hoping he'd think of it himself. Ultimately there are no guarantees but I'd say it's worth a shot. I'm sitting here after a hour night shift, still having to wash and fold his shirts for his return, clean the house, keep the pantry stocked up as well as support my business, feeling quite resentful of the fact that he's being wined and dined by the upper class at fancy restaurants.